Buffalo
& Western New York
| Rochester Area
| Syracuse &
Central New York | Capital
District & North Country | Westchester
& Hudson Valley | New
York City | Long
Island
Statewide
Stuart Appelbaum, President
Retail, Wholesale and Department Store Union (RWDSU/UFCW)
Statewide
"Over the course of the last 25 years, working people have witnessed an onslaught of attacks on civil rights laws and the communities they help protect. These attacks have routinely been led by well-funded conservative interest groups who have coupled their assault on civil rights in the courts and legislative arenas with efforts to demonize religious minorities, lesbians and gays, immigrants and people of color. But the RWDSU is committed to continue the struggle for human rights including the right to marry for same-sex couples in New York. And the RWDSU opposes the enactment of laws that would prohibit that right, such as the so-called 'Federal Marriage Amendment'."
New
York State Comptroller Alan G. Hevesi
“I
am proud to be one of the first elected
officials in New York State to support
the right of same-sex couples to marry.
Why? Because I believe in opposing
and fighting all forms of discrimination
to bring about a society where all
people are truly equal under the law
and are afforded the same benefits
and protections as everyone else.
That is, ultimately, the greatest
of American family values.
Robert Madore, Director
Region 9A, United Auto Workers (UAW)
Statewide
"I have worked all my life protecting workers rights and feel strongly that people should be free to life there lives as they wish. I wholeheartly support diversity and feel strongly that no matter what your sexual orientation, equality should be demanded."
Bruce
Raynor, President
UNITE HERE*
* for identification only
"I
support the Marriage Equality campaign
as a union leader because I have dedicated
my entire working life to fighting
against injustice and discrimination
in any and all forms. I am proud to
stand with my brothers and sisters
at Empire State Pride in support of
this important struggle."
Dennis
Rivera, President
1199SEIU United Healthcare Workers
East
While members of SEIU 1199 have
a variety of views about marriage,
according to their personal or religious
beliefs, it is a fundamental, uniting
principle of our organization that
all people are entitled to equal rights.
We therefore support the right of
same-sex couples to access the full
and equal rights, responsibilities
and economic benefits of civil marriage
and oppose laws and constitutional
amendments that deny that right.
Chris
Shelton, Vice President
District One, Communication Workers
of America (CWA)
"As
trade unionists, we believe all workers
are entitled to a discrimination-free
workplace with full parity in benefits,
pay, and fair treatment outside of
the job, including gay and lesbian
workers. The U.S. General Accounting
Office has documented more than 1,000
federal benefits and protections accorded
by civil marriage. The Communications
Workers of America supports the rights
of all our members to access the full
and equal rights of civil marriage."
New
York State Attorney General Elliot
Spitzer
“I
have always strongly believed that
loving couples of the same sex deserve
the freedom to marry. Marriage equality
will strengthen families, which is
in the best interest of our society—and
our children’s future."
Ellen
N. Wallace
President
National Organization of Legal Services
Workers, Local 2320
United Auto Workers (UAW)
"The
National Organization of Legal Services
Workers (NOLSW/UAW Local 2320) and
the International UAW has a long history
of opposing discrimination of all
forms including discrimination based
on sexual orientation. NOLSW and the
UAW have fought to include health
and leave benefits in our collective
bargaining agreements on a non-discriminatory
basis for all employees, including
domestic partners. However, there
are thousands of rights and benefits
extended to married couples under
local, state and federal laws that
are not available to same-sex couples.
For example, survivor benefits under
worker's compensation laws, Social
Security, and pensions are all linked
to marital status. The right to be
at the bedside of a seriously ill
spouse, to make medical decisions
for an incapacitated spouse, to sponsor
a spouse under immigration laws, to
pursue wrongful death claims, to take
advantage of countless tax and government
benefits, among other rights and benefits
are simply not available to same-sex
couples without the right to civil
marriage. Discrimination against same-sex
couples violates their human rights
and their rights as workers to enjoy
the same rights and benefits as other
married couples. Only marriage can
assure full equality under the law."
Buffalo
& Western New York
The
Reverend Timothy W. Ashton: Minister,
Unitarian Universalist Church of Amherst
Williamsville, NY
"Stable
relationships are at the core of orderly
and supportive societies. All couples
who love each other and wish to create
households and families deserve the
validation of the state and the security
of that legal recognition."
Joyce
Degenhardt, Regional Coordinator
Region 1, New York State Public Employee
Federation (PEF)
Affiliated with Service Employees International
Union (SEIU) and American Federation
of Teachers (AFT)
Buffalo, NY
"I
am the elected union leader for over
4,200 professional, scientific and technical
employees in New York State facilities
and agencies in the five westernmost
counties of this state. While members
of labor unions have a variety of views
about marriage, according to their personal
or religious beliefs, it is a fundamental,
uniting principle of the labor movement
that all people are entitled to equal
rights. The labor movement invented
domestic partner benefits to respond
to the real economic needs of unmarried
union families, including lesbian, gay,
bisexual and transgender members. My
own union played an important role in
negotiating domestic partner benefits
for New York State employees over 10
years ago. It's time that the State
of New York completed the job we began
by granting equal civil marriage rights
to these families."
The
Reverend Clara Gilles: Assisting Clergy,
Trinity Episcopal Church
Buffalo, NY
"There
is no justice and equality unless there
is justice and equality for all citizens
of New York state and the whole country.
Love and compassion are the only system
that embodies us as the children of
God. No one or government has the authority
to deny equality to what God has created
and blessed."
Assemblymember
Sam Hoyt:
New York State Assembly, 144th District
Representing part of Erie County
“I
have long been a champion for all types
of civil-rights and am against discrimination
in all its forms. As a strong advocate
for the gay and lesbian community, I
cannot justify continuing the State's
keeping the door to marriage closed
to loving couples who want to make a
lifelong commitment, just because of
their sexual orientation.”
The
Reverend Barbara Hulsing: Pastor, Good
Shepherd Baptist Church
Buffalo, NY
"I
support the right for same-sex couples
to marry in New York State because I
believe in the human dignity of every
person, regardless of gender identity,
gender orientation or gender expression.
With this human dignity in mind, I believe
that ALL couples/families deserve to
share the same civil rights (e.g., work-force
benefits, decision making in health
care, parenting) that are provided for
heterosexual couples. I also believe
that marriage is a demonstration of
commitment and provides the opportunity
for loved ones and friends to witness
to and acknowledge this commitment."
Rev.
John R. Long, D.D., First Presbyterian
Church of Buffalo
Buffalo, NY
"Throughout
his life Jesus showed his acceptance
and love for all sorts of outcast and
marginalized persons, Samaritans, tax
collectors, women, the mentally ill,
even Roman soldiers. It is certain that
Jesus love extends to people who are
homosexual. As a clergyman, and as a
citizen, I cannot help but support legislation
that restores to any people the rights
they ought to have. Specifically, I
support legislation that would allow
homosexual couples to marry and enjoy
the same rights and privileges that
other married couples have."
The
Reverend Mary E. Masters: Minister,
Unity Church of Practical Christianity
Buffalo, NY
"I
support the right of same-sex couples
to marry in the state of New York, and
in all states for that matter. The official
position of the International Association
of Unity Churches, which I whole-heartedly
support, is that 'we believe that all
people are created with sacred worth'.
Therefore, we recognize the importance
of serving all people in spiritually
and emotionally caring ways. We respect
the wonderful variety of human commitments
and relationships as part of the many
ways we reach out to all people as did
our Way-Shower, Jesus Christ. We honor
the strength of our diversity. It is
with love and in celebration of our
unity, in the midst of our wondrous
diversity, that we have affirmed this
position."
Rabbi
Harry Rosenfeld: Temple Beth Zion
Buffalo, NY
"We
often speak of family values and yet
our society works so hard to keep a
significant part of our community from
creating families. Any two people, regardless
of their gender preferences, have the
right to form intimate, stable families
that have all the benefits available
to families created with a male and
a female partner. Our society facilitates
the formation of families through the
institution of marriage and our governments
should make marriage available to all
consenting adult members of our society."
Reverend
Sara D. Smith, Esq.,
Pastor, Kenilworth United Church of
Christ
Buffalo, New York
"In
my current position as a minister in
suburban Buffalo, I see daily the rewards
and challenges of straight couples and
families sharing life together. Often,
it is the marriage license and its hundreds
of attenuating legal rights that provide
the support and remedies necessary to
sustain it. I also know first-hand the
difficulties for gay couples and families
because these legal rights are not available
to them.
In
addition, I understand the distinction
between the church's and the state's
role in solemnizing a covenant made
between two people. When I bless a couple
during a wedding ceremony, I act on
behalf of my religious community. When
I sign the marriage license, I act on
behalf of the state. The church weds
and blesses; the state marries.
Yet the state will not allow me to marry
my partner. While the state does require
of me a driver's license, a fishing
license, etc., it will not issue me
the one license that signifies the most
important decision in my life. As an
attorney, I hold dear the foundational
tenet that our government must uphold
and defend basic rights afforded all
Americans. I pay my taxes, I vote, I
obey the laws, yet our government treats
me like a second-class citizen. This
is unconstitutional, this is wrong,
and this is discrimination.
As
an ordained clergy in the United Church
of Christ, I am proud that my denomination
and my congregation celebrate and support
GLBT persons and their relationships.
Although the roles they play are different,
I expect my federal and state governments
to do the same."
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Rochester
Area
Rev.
Kaaren Anderson, Co-Parish Minister,
First Unitarian Church
Rochester, NY
"Freedom
for all! Rights for all! Indeed that
has been our motto, for 33 years. The
Unitarian Universalist Association has
had a long standing and deeply held
commitment to support full equality
for bisexual, gay, lesbian and transgender
people. In 1996, we turned our attention
to support for the legalization of same
sex marriage.
About a third of the marriages I perform
are for gays and lesbians. It is heartbreaking
that we as a country, one that stands
for equal protection under the law,
do not offer these individuals the same
protection for their love and commitment
that heterosexual couples so easily
afford. It is with great enthusiasm,
and overwhelming support, that I affirm
and advocate for any legislation that
would provide equal protection and benefits
to gays and lesbians when they marry
that is currently only given to heterosexuals
couples."
James
V. Bertalone, President
Rochester & Genesee Valley Area
Labor Federation
President
Local 215, American Postal Workers Union
(APWU)
Rochester, NY
"Union
members and the labor movement have
a long history of supporting equal rights
for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender
(LGBT) workers. We know that the denial
of marriage equality hurts not just
these families but all the family members,
neighbors and co-workers who care about
the well-being of these couples and
their children. We will resist any attempt
by anti-worker forces to use this issue
in elections this year or beyond to
divide working people in order to elect
candidates with proven track records
of favoring corporate special interests
at the expense of working families."
Excerpted from "Union Resolution
for Marriage Equality" passed by
Executive Board of the Rochester &
Genesee Valley Area Labor Federation
Harry Bronson, Assistant Democratic Leader & County Legislator
Monroe County Legislature, 24th District
"The issue of civil marraige for same sex-couples is a legal issue that is a statement about who we are as a society. Do we honor our long tradition of fairness, equality and basic human rights? If so, then to allow same-sex couples the full rights under law --that are the same as and NOT separate are imperative. The simple fact is that same-sex couples love each other, want to make a public expression of their love and commitment and in so doing need and deserve the same legal protections, benefits and responsibility as any other couple in society."
The
Reverend Lee Ann Bryce: Pastor, Community
Christian Church, United Church of Christ
& Christian Church (Disciples of
Christ)
Rochester, NY
"Full
inclusion of lesbian and gay people
into the church, as well as in society,
is central to my sense of call as a
pastor. Given that Jesus, without exception,
reached out to those in his society
who were the disenfranchised, the marginalized,
I believe it to be a Christian imperative
to stand with those who are victims
of discrimination in our society. Marriage
is clearly a civil issue requiring people
of all faiths and those who do not profess
a faith to stand together in support
of equal access to marriage for all
people."
Carollee
Conklin, City Councilperson At Large
City of Rochester
"I
am a strong supporter of same sex civil
unions. The issue is one of Civil Rights
and Equal treatment for all citizens."
Rev.
Jennifer Crow
Associate Minister
First Unitarian Church of Rochester
Rochester, NY
"I
believe that where there is love, the
sacred is in our midst. I believe that
all people have the right to lead lives
that express love, justice, mutuality,
and commitment - regardless of their
gender. These beliefs call me to act
in the hope that one day all people
will truly be recognized as equal and
offered the same rights in our society.
I am proud to stand within a religious
tradition that has been performing ceremonies
of union for same-sex couple for over
30 years - and that actively welcomes
gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered
people to our congregations. We stand
together in the belief that homophobia,
not homosexuality, is the sin."
County
Legislator C. Stephen Eckel:
Monroe County Legislature, 26th District
"I
am proud and excited to be a part of
your efforts for all couples to have
the same rights under the law. Sad that
it has to be made law and not just accepted
for itself. Love is a beautiful thing.
When I got married I didn't think that
my love for my spouse could get more
powerful. But I found that a ceremony
declaring my love for somebody very
special to me strengthened our connection
and made our relationship that much
stronger. Marriage is a union of love,
not of sex. Marriage is a bond and partnership.
It is the joining with the mirror of
our one true soul. It is about friendship
and love. It is a path one shares with
their partner. To deny this bond is
to deny love."
Town
Supervisor Sandra Frankel:
Town of Brighton
“Our
democracy rests upon the principle that
“all men are created equal”,
the promise of “life, liberty
and the pursuit of happiness”,
and the rule of law. These words ring
as true today as they did at the dawn
of our new nation, and this should be
the reality for all Americans, but sadly
it is not. Every citizen deserves equal
treatment under the law, and members
of the GLBT community deserve no less.
Same sex couples in committed, loving
relationships should have the same rights
and responsibilities, the same hopes
and opportunities that the contract
of civil marriage affords to all other
couples. This is the civil rights challenge
of our time, and respecting the diversity
of families is the right thing to do.”
Richard
S. Gilbert: Social Justice Coordinator,
St. Lawrence Unitarian Universalist
District
Rochester, NY
"In
January of 1998 I preached a sermon
on 'Where Love Is: The Case for Same-Sex
Marriage.' In it I said that society
should cherish embodiments of mature
and responsible love wherever it may
be found. It is too bad that the biblical
message has been so distorted that hate
has been given religious sanction. I
have performed several same-sex ceremonies
of commitment in the hope that one day
I will be able to officiate at the legal
marriages of same-sex couples. Love
is still the issue."
Town
Clerk Susan Kramarsky:
Town of Brighton
“The
issue of legal marriages is, for me,
simply an issue of “liberty and
justice for all”. I continue to
hope that the sound principles upon
which the founders framed the laws are
the basis for all of our subsequent
interpretations and I look forward as
a Town Clerk to issue legal licenses
to all who seek the institution of marriage
by whatever name it will be called.”
Rabbi
Amy J. Sapowith, Temple Sinai
Rochester, NY
"The
inspiration that moves two women or
two men to marry one another is nothing
less than holy. To insist otherwise
is to bow down to the false god of gender."
The
Reverend Willie J. Seals, Jr.: Interim
Pastor, Webster Baptist Church
Rochester, NY
"Why
do I support marriage rights for same-sex
couples in New York State? Because it's
a matter of granting civil rights and
equal rights for all New Yorkers. Same-sex
couples and their children should be
afforded the same legal rights, privileges
and protection that civil marriage currently
provides a male and female couple and
their children."
Thomas Warfield, Performer
Rochester, NY
"It is vital for people of all races, backgrounds and beliefs to stand up against any discriminated and injustice. As a Marriage Equality activist for the Empire State Pride Agenda I believe it is a civil rights issue. Equality is an intrinsic element in the fabric of America; and if any of us are not free to share our love and life with whom we choose then all of us are enslaved and less than what we might be. We need to demand the right to celebrate the many ways we love and demonstrate our commitments to each other and to give voice to the freedom and justice that only equality can give."
The
Very Reverend C. Denise Yarbrough: St.
Mark's Episcopal Church
Penn Yan, NY
"I
support the right of same sex couples
to marry because I believe it is a basic
human, civil right. I also believe that
God blesses these relationships just
as God blesses any committed, lifelong
monogomous union entered into for the
mutual benefit and care of each person.
God created us to be in community and
for GLB people the community of intimacy
that God creates for them is found in
intimate relationships with people of
the same sex."
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Syracuse
& Central New York
The
Honorable Michelle C. Berry, Alderperson/City
Councilperson
City of Ithaca
"I
believe that the right to marry for
all citizens, regardless of gender,
is one of our largest civil and human
rights battles. As a bi woman married
to a man, I am certainly and often painfully
aware of the privileges bestowed upon
male-female partners who have united
in marriage. Research indicates that
denying equal rights to same-sex couples
causes harm in many ways, perhaps the
most potent being the damage done to
psychological well-being for couples
and their families. Granting the privilege
of marriage to same-sex couples is what
we'd expect and must demand from a progressive
state such as ours."
Marshall
Blake, President
Central
New York Area Labor Federation
Executive Vice President
Service Employees International Union
(SEIU) 1199Upstate
Syracuse, NY
Union
members and the labor movement have
a long history of supporting equal rights
for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender
(LGBT) workers. We know that the denial
of marriage equality hurts not just
these families but all the family members,
neighbors and co-workers who care about
the well-being of these couples and
their children. We will resist any attempt
by anti-worker forces to use this issue
in elections this year or beyond to
divide working people in order to elect
candidates with proven track records
of favoring corporate special interests
at the expense of working families.
Excerpted
from Union Resolution for Marriage
Equality passed by Executive Board
of the Central New York Area Labor Federation
Rev.
Roko Sherry Chayat
Abbot, Zen Center of Syracuse
Syracuse, NY
"I
support the Marriage Equality campaign
in New York State (and elsewhere). Couples,
whether heterosexual or same sex, who
are in loving, mature, and committed
relationships, should have the right
to formalize those relationships through
legal marriage, and take on all the
responsibilities and privileges accorded
by law."
The
Reverend Thomas A. Clemow: Pastor, First
United Methodist Church
Oneonta, NY
"I
support the right for same-sex couples
to marry in New York State. It is discriminatory
and demeaning to deny to same-sex couples
the opportunity to participate fully
in all the societal benefits which heterosexual
couples immediately acquire upon their
marriage. Love, fidelity and the capacity
to enter into a covenental relationship
are gender-blind. We impoverish this
state by not recognizing the legitimacy
of all relations founded upon love,
mutual respect, and commitment."
Rabbi Rachel Esserman:
Endwell, NY
"I
support the right for same-sex couples
to be legally married in New York State.
My religious tradition demands that
we pursue justice, that we allow for
the equality of all. The civil authority
must recognize this and allow these
couple their legal rights under the
law."
Rev.
Margaret A. Hart
Minister, First Universalist Society
of Central Square, NY, a Unitarian Universalist
congregation
"I
support the right for same-sex couples
to marry in New York State. I don't
understand why they shouldn't be allowed
to. Marriage, to me, is a sacrament
and a covenant between two people who
love each other. It is also a legal
binding of two people together with
the ensuing rights and responsibilities
of that union. Believing in the inherent
worth and dignity of all people, I believe
that all should be allowed to marry."
County
Legislator Michael Koplinka-Loehr:
Tompkins County Legislature, District
11
“I
support the right for same-sex couples
to be legally married in New York State.
I look forward to the day when the right
to marry (along with all of the benefits
and responsibilities thereof) becomes
available to and commonplace for ALL
citizens in our state.”
Councilperson
Patricia Leary:
Ithaca Town Board
“Marriage
has long been recognized as a stabilizing
force in society and a right of full
citizenship. It serves both the principle
of equal rights and the broader common
good that the state recognize the validity
of marriage between committed parties
regardless of gender.”
County
Legislator Kathy Luz Herrera:
Tompkins County Legislature, District
5
“As
a Latino lesbian from Texas, I recall
the history of the shameful "anti-miscegenation"
laws of the not-so-distant past as I
compare this struggle to the ongoing
fight for racial equality in this country.
We know that marriage promotes social
stability. At its root, this is simply
an issue of fairness. I support marriage
equality, and urge you to do the same.
Rabbi Linda Motzkin & Rabbi Jonathan
Rubenstein: Temple Sinai
Saratoga Springs, NY
"In
a world torn by violence and hatred,
loving relationships have a role in
bringing about healing in society. We
believe that people in same-sex relationships
who choose to publicly and formally
affirm their love and commitment should
have the right to do so, and that these
unions should be authorized and supported
in civil society as well as in religious
community."
The
Rev. J. Andrew McTyre
Pastor / Head of Staff
Park Central Presbyterian Church
Syracuse, New York
"I
support same-sex marriage because I
am a Christian. Marriage is a civil
contract, and human rights demand that
it should be available to any two adults
who choose to enter into such an agreement.
To deny any human rights to a particular
group of people because of skin color,
gender, economic status or sexual orientation
is to ignore our faith's injunction
to do justice, love kindness and walk
humbly with our God."
Mayor
Carolyn K. Peterson:
City of Ithaca
“Two
years ago I worked closely with members
of our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender
community to craft a response to the
exciting "wave" sweeping the
country from San Francisco to Long Island
regarding same sex marriages. As mayor
of a community that in 2005 was selected
as "One of America's Fabulous Gay-Friendly
Places to Live" it was important
to me to make a statement. Ithaca took
an interesting position and we hope
to see successful results in the New
York courts or legislature some day.
Why? To me it is very basic: two individuals
wish to commit their lives to each other.
They deserve the protections and benefits,
as loving partners in our society, as
others who currently can do so legally.”
Alderperson
Shane M. Seger:
Ithaca Common Council, 1st Ward
“I
support marriage equality in New York
State. As
a member of Ithaca’s Common Council,
I am a marriage official. Of course
the irony is that as a gay man, I am
now able to marry opposite-sex couples
but am unable to be married. It saddens
me that so many of my friends and acquaintances
in long-term same-sex relationships
cannot ask me to perform marriages for
them.
I
am proud to live in a community which
has a Mayor who has made a strong statement
in favor of marriage equality and in
which 25 local couples are suing the
state to challenge marriage law. I will
be prouder still, when New York grants
gay and lesbian couples full marriage
equality.
The
Rev. Craig Schaub, Plymouth Congregational
Church, United
Church of Christ
Syracuse, NY
"Last
night I awoke in the night, checked
on my little daughter, rolled back into
bed next to my wife, and was overcome
by a sense of deep gratitude for my
marriage and the opportunity to be a
dad, and even the legal privileges that
come with those experiences. In the
midst of my gratitude, I suddenly also
felt a deep mourning. That mourning
comes from the realization that not
all committed life partners are afforded
the same legal privileges. In spite
of the fact that my church offers same-sex
couples an opportunity to celebrate
their commitment in a sacred service,
seek a divine blessing for their relationship,
and seek spiritual support in community,
we are still, by virtue of being agents
of the state in many marriages, complicit
participants in what amounts to a social
and spiritual apartheid. I pledge to
help stop it."
District
Attorney Gwen Wilkinson:
Tompkins County
“If our society is going to
identify a human relationship to receive
the exclusive benefit of state sanction
and other advantages -both economic
and social- then we must insist that
identical recognition be offered to
same sex couples. To do anything less
is to accept the absurd premise that
gay relationships are unequal.”
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Capital
District & North Country
Matthew Baumgartner, Businessman
Albany, NY
“As the owner of Bombers Burrito Bar and Noche Lounge, I support the idea, the institution and the legalization of Same Sex Marriages. I find it so sad that in 2006 this is even an issue! The love and marriage between two human beings, regardless of race, sex or religion, is sacred and special and should be encouraged and blessed. The idea that marriage should be excluded from two women or two men is an embarrassing and very antiquated government policy. Where is the love, America?”
Councilmember
Dominick Calsolaro:
Albany Common Council, 1st Ward
"As
an elected official I feel it is not
only my duty, but my legal responsibility,
to ensure that all people are treated
equally and justly under the laws of
our state and nation. With that as a
background, I firmly believe that ‘marriage
equity’ for all people, no matter
their race, religion, or sexual orientation,
is proper and legal in our state and
nation."
President
Pro Tempore Richard Conti:
Albany Common Council, 6th Ward
“Marriage
equality is a simple matter of justice.
The rights and responsibilities that
government extends through marriage
can only effectively and efficiently
be accorded to same sex couples through
marriage equality. Government has an
interest in promoting stabile relationships,
therefore government has an interest
in equality. It’s that simple.”
The
Reverend Steve Clunn: The First United
Methodist Church
Schenectady, NY
"I
find it ridiculous for anyone to imply
that my marriage, family life and/or
faith values are threatened in any way
by two people of the same sex having
the right to marry. I also find it demeaning
to religate the issue of marriage among
same-sex couples to a simplistic debate
about civil rights. Yes, I recognize
that I have been afforded a great number
of civil rights as a result of becoming
married, that had nothing to do with
my decision to get married. I was married
because of the gift of love that I found
in my spouse and the love and presence
of God that we have discovered together
through both good and trying times.
While marriage among same-sex couples
does indeed involve issues of fairness
and equality under the law, for me,
it is much more. I support same-sex
marriage because I want others to be
able to celebrate the presence of God
as a part of their commitment to a life-long
partner; I want others to have that
"God presence" recognized
and supported by other people of faith,
because I know how critical that has
been to the development of our love
and family life; and, I want to be supportive
of good, Godly, healthy uplifting marriages
and families. Simply put, I want all
others to be able to have what I have
been blessed to find in marriage."
The
Reverend Stanley Craig: Lynnwood Reformed
Schenectady, NY
"My
religious tradition informs me that
every human, without exception, carries
the image and likeness of the Divine.
Our political history teaches us that
all of our citizens are due the most
basic of rights: life, liberty and the
pursuit of happiness. How can we deny
a 'made-in-the-image-of-God' human the
right to the happiness of a married
life? The answer, religiously and politically
is: we cannot. It is time, New York,
for us to celebrate our God-given diversity
and support marriage equality. I for
one, am sorry it has taken us so long."
Joe
Fox, President
Capital District Area Labor Federation,
AFL-CIO
Vice President
New York State Public Employee Federation
Albany, NY
"As
unions, we have a particular responsibility
to protect equal rights and promote
economic justice in connection with
collective bargaining, economic benefits
and legislation that affect our members.
The labor movement invented domestic
partner benefits to respond to the real
economic needs of unmarried union families,
including lesbian, gay, bisexual and
transgender members.
We
recognize that the lack of access to
civil marriage deprives gay and lesbian
working families of more than 1,500
rights and benefits afforded heterosexual
families, such as spousal Social Security
and pension benefits, hospital visitation
rights, spousal health insurance, immigration
rights as well as rights in the workplace.
We have asked our State Federation to
make it a legislative goal to ensure
that all members enjoy equal marriage
rights and benefits and to determine
where New York State elected officials
stand on this issue prior to the 2006
elections."
County
Legislator John A. Frederick:
Albany County Legislature, 6th District
"As
an openly-gay elected official in a
long-term committed relationship, my
partner and I experience first-hand
the discrimination which bars us from
enjoying the vast number of rights and
responsibilities inherent in marriage.
Fair-minded New Yorkers seeing loving,
committed same-sex couples will agree
that the freedom marry must be given
equally to all."
Jonathan
E. Gradess, Executive Director
New York State Defenders Association
Albany, NY
"Love
is the most powerful force on our planet.
When we engage it for goodness we become
our design. Love is at the root of the
peace we seek; it is in the midst of
the harmony we cherish. When two human
beings love one another and, in many
ways, become one person, they live out
the great plan for humankind. From that
sphere of influence - two faithful,
committed loving human beings embarking
on genuine partnership - there can be
a journey that includes the relationships
of family and community, state and country
and world. When we can take away all
the borders that separate us we become
the holy people we are called to be.
Marriage between two people of the same
sex should be as natural as love between
two people of the same sex. There is
no reason for the State to bar such
unions. Marriage equality for same sex
couples - legal marriage under New York
law identical in scope to that of heterosexual
persons - is something for which the
time has come. I wholeheartedly support
it and urge our Legislature to bring
it into being."
The Reverend Anthony W. Green: United
Church of Christ
Albany, NY
"It
is unconscionable that in a so-called
"free society" so many people
would be denied justice in the church
and the State. The God of love weeps
with gay and lesbian people who do not
enjoy the same right and privilege as
heterosexual people in making a public
statement and commitment of their love
and having it recognized as legitimate."
The
Reverend Diane Marquit: United Methodist
Church
North Creek, NY
"The
Holy Bible is a human-written document
offering a window into divine wisdom
and the unavoidable prejudices and misunderstandings
of the people who have done the writing
and redacting. Critical-thinking Americans
today have choices. We can avoid human
connectedness, live in a state of rebellious
denial and use literalism as a wedge
to justify fears and biases~ or we can
look one another in the eye, honor each
heart and soul, and release the healing
love and Spirit of Christ.
What
harm can be done in honoring love by
offering same sex partners equal rights
and protections under the law? Such
a move might begin to check the spiraling
spiritual violence being committed in
our society where injustice is inviting
a slippery slope contributing to overall
decay.
It
is time to recognize the wisdom of our
loving God and those who signed The
Declaration of Independence by dedicating
ourselves to justice and offering in
our state and nation the rights which
are self-evident. Let us work for life,
liberty, and the pursuit of happiness
for all human beings-- children of one
Creator and gifted with these unalienable
rights.
I
cherish the day wedding bells will ring
out glad freedom for the oppressed,
and those who live in a free land will
no longer with burdened hearts fear
to ask for whom the bell tolls."
Rabbi
Linda Motzkin & Rabbi Jonathan Rubenstein:
Temple Sinai
Saratoga Springs, NY
"In
a world torn by violence and hatred,
loving relationships have a role in
bringing about healing in society. We
believe that people in same-sex relationships
who choose to publicly and formally
affirm their love and commitment should
have the right to do so, and that these
unions should be authorized and supported
in civil society as well as in religious
community."
Rabbi
Jonathan Roos: Associate Rabbi, Congregation
Beth Emeth
Albany, NY
"I
support the right for same sex-couples
to marry in New York because it is the
right and just thing under the values
of my Jewish tradition and principles
of our nation. My people are supposed
to live by the following story: Our
ancient sage, Rabbi Hillel, was asked
if he could teach the entirety of the
Torah while standing on one foot. He
taught: 'Anything that is hateful to
you, you should not do to other people.
That is the Torah. All the rest is commentary,
now go and learn.' Few things are more
hateful to me than denying equal protection
under the law because of the nature
of a person's relationships. Even one
who believes that homosexuality is forbidden
by Scripture must remember that the
specifics of any biblical passage are
trumped by the Golden Rule taught by
Hillel. Equal rights under the law must
be given to everyone whether you love
them or hate them."
Archbishop
Richard G. Roy: Primate, National Catholic
Church of America
Albany, NY
"The
United States Constitution guarantees
to all its citizens the right to, 'life,
liberty and the pursuit of happiness'.
To deny same-sex couples the opportunity
to enter into marriage is to create
a class of persons for whom those rights
are curtailed. As a Christian, it also
seems to me that the committed love
and stability such marriages would foster
are entirely in keeping with the spirit
of the gospel."
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Westchester
& Hudson Valley
Bishop
Francisco J. Betancourt, FCR, Holy Innocents
Church
Margaretville, NY
"Where
love is present, God is present. As
a Bishop in the Catholic Apostolic Church
in North America, I support the Marriage
Equality Act. Individuals who are in
a committed relationship should be given
the same privilege as others to have
the love for one another recognized
by our governments. There is no room
in either government or religions for
discrimination."
Assemblymember
Richard Brodsky
Representing part of Westchester County
"I
believe that that New York will be a
better, stronger place when all loving,
committed couples - including same-sex
couples - have access to legal marriage."
The
Reverend David M. Bryce: Minister, First
Unitarian Society of Westchester
Hastings-On-Hudson, NY
"Our
nation, like every other nation, was
founded with imperfections built in.
Over the centuries we have had to work
hard to overcome cultural, ideological
and religious failings and misunderstandings
in order to bring greater freedom and
equality to all of our people. I am
proud to lend my voice to this, the
next phase of the struggle for universal
rights and equality."
Rabbi/Cantor
Angela Warnick Buchdahl: Westchester
Reform Temple
Scarsdale, NY
"Same-sex
marriage is one of the critical civil
rights issues of our time, and it carries
supreme moral and religious significance.
I recognize the holiness of unions between
same-sex partners who commit themselves
to each other. As a person of faith,
I want to encourage same-sex unions
to sanctify their relationships and
be recognized by their religious communities
and by God. I pray that validation by
our state and country will not be far
behind."
Rabbi
Douglas E. Krantz: Congregation B'nai
Yisrael
Armonk, NY
"I
believe that marriage is defined not
by gender, but by the relationship that
is based on mutuality and nurturing
and secured in love."
Jeanne
E. Mettler, Attorney
Bedford Hills, NY
"A
civil marriage is a civil right. Marriage
carries with it not only countless tangible
rights, but also dignity, esteem and
acceptance. To deny these rights to
same sex couples renders them second
class citizens and demeans the history
of civil rights in this State."
Senator
Suzi Oppenheimer:
New York State Senate, 37th District
Representing part of Westchester County
"If we believe, as did our
founding fathers, that all people should
be treated equally under the law, then
we must support marriage for same sex
couples. For a more caring society,
we need more committed, loving couples,
heterosexual or homosexual!"
Mayor
John Shields:
Village of Nyack
"After
I was elected I realized that I would
marry people but could not marry a person
of my choice. The Pledge of Allegiance
ends ‘…with liberty and
justice for all.’ Perhaps in light
of what’s happening in the United
States today it should end ‘…with
liberty and justice for some."
Rabbi
William Strongin: Jewish Congregation
of New Paltz
New Paltz, NY
"When
two people choose one another to love,
to support and in general to form an
alliance together in order to deal with
the vast array of powers that buffet
our lives, that union is holy before
God, and to be greatly esteemed by human
society. Whether that couple consists
of two persons of opposite sex or of
the same sex, the union's holiness is
the same. A household based upon stability,
respect and affection is a haven for
children, and these factors are certainly
not generated by the mere genders of
the parents. I am in favor of full marital
rights for same sex couples."
Nathan C. Walker, M.Div., M.A.Consulting Minister
Unitarian Church of Staten Island
"The New York State Constitution states that no member of New York “shall be disfranchised, or deprived of any of the rights or privileges secured to any citizen.” To deny homosexuals the right to marry is not only unconstitutional but betrayal of the principles of liberty and justice for all. My hope is that our state, our country, will come to recognize that love and justice have been married for a very long time."
Fr.
John B. Warfel, Rector, Grace Episcopal
Church
Middletown, NY
"Marriage
equality is a social justice issue.
Biblical literalists who claim to know
the Mind of God on issues of sexuality
are free to believe and preach whatever
they choose, just as I am; but none
of us is free to deny another citizen
basic civil liberties."
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New
York City
Rabbi
David Adelson: East End Temple
New York, NY
"As
a Jew, I am commanded to uphold the
law that 'There shall be one law for
you and the resident stranger...' (Numbers
15:15). For too long, gay men and lesbians
have been made to be resident strangers
in our society. They are due the same
rights as straight people, and their
committed relationships are due the
same recognition. I am proud to officiate
at the weddings of Jewish couples, both
same-sex and heterosexual."
Brother
John Azzali, FCR: Associate Pastor,
Deacon, Sts. Sergius and Bacchus Catholic
Apostolic Parish
Astoria, NY
"As
a deacon in a sacramental Church in
the Catholic tradition, I have joined
in sacramental holy union both same
-sex couples and different-sex couples.
The depth of love and commitment are
equal. There is no difference. So the
State should honor both equally and
afford the benefits and obligations
to all."
The
Reverend Luis Barrios: St. Mary's Epicopal
Church
New York, NY
"One
of my privilege as a priest is to use
the gift of blessing that God gave as
a way of reaffirming people's relationship.
I always look in this blessing the values
of commitment, love and respect. Similar
to a heterosexual couple, if two men
or two women can reveal these values
I then go for the marriage blessing.
This is my solemn vow."
The
Reverend J. Barrington Bates: Curate,
Church of the Ascension (Episcopal)
New York, NY
"Since
the beginning, Christians have tried
to exclude other people from the Church
based on their history, lifestyle, or
ethnic group. The Holy Spirit has consistently
demonstrated that this is wrong. In
the Acts of the Apostles, for instance,
we read of Cornelius, a Roman centurion
and a Gentile, and of Peter's attempts
to exclude him and others like him from
the Church. The Holy Spirit intervened,
and Peter saw the error of his ways
(Acts 10).
Our
modern-day rancor about same-gender
marriage is really no different from
this and other debates-about the full
inclusion of women, those of different
ethnic backgrounds, and other marginalized
groups. And those who would seek to
continue to discriminate against gay
and lesbian people are no less wrong.
As Simon Peter said, 'If then God gave
them the same gift that he gave us
,
who was I that I could hinder God?'"
The
Reverend Kevin Bean: St. Bartholomew's
Church
New York, NY
"I
do not see how Church or State can define
and then exclude people on the basis
of sexual orientation alone - not if
the law of love is more important than
the laws of biology or precedents in
civil or canon law. If we judge what
is natural and appropriate according
to the Law of Love, and if we can affirm
that gays and lesbians can be as loving
and responsible spouses and parents
as straight people, then how is homosexual
love and same-sex marriage contrary
to human nature or societal customs?
What makes heterosexual relationships
and marriage any more special or worthy
of support and legal sanction? Shouldn't
a relationship be judged by its inner
worth rather than just by its outward
appearance? Isn't it in the interest
of the Church and the State to support
family stability? So then why should
anyone deny support for overtly gay
stable monogamous relationships and
same-sex marriage? Having blessed same-sex
marriages (as the former Rector of St.
Andrew's Episcopal Church in Marblehead,
Massachusetts), I look forward to the
day I can do the same here in New York."
Rabbi Shelley Kovar Becker: Temple Sholom of Floral Park
Floral Park, NY
"The
Empire State Pride Agenda has my full
and unqualified support for your position
on the right of same-sex couples to
marry in New York State. As a Rabbi
it has been my privilege to stand under
the chuppah, the marriage canopy, with
same-sex couples, as I believe gender
should not be a barrier to espressing
a loving commitment to another human
being in a recognized legal context.
I do not think the State has a compelling
or even reasonable justification to
withhold this right."
Assemblymember
Jonathan L. Bing:
New York State Assembly, 73rd District
Representing part of Manhattan
“Assemblymember
Bing believes that economic rights are
civil rights, and that they should be
fairly extended to all members of our
society. He is a proud co-sponsor of
A. 7463, legislation that would amend
the New York State Domestic Relations
Law to formally recognize same-sex marriages.
He feels that same-sex couples should
have equal access to the legal and social
protections, responsibilities, and benefits
of civil marriage. To that end, Assemblymember
Bing has also co-sponsored four pieces
of legislation to recognize domestic
partnerships to ensure that all New
Yorkers, independent of sexual preference,
have access to the same fair insurance-related
and economic benefits as other spouses.”
Barbara
Bowen, President
Professional Staff Congress (PSC)/City
University of NY
American Federation of Teachers (AFT)
New York, NY
"Unions
have always been about rights, and the
union movement is at its most powerful
when we fight to expand the civil and
economic rights of all-not just union
members. Equal access to marriage-as
a unique social institution of a civil
society-is a fundamental civil right.
Marriage bestows 1,138 federal protections
and benefits, including the right to
hospital visitation, to financial benefits,
to numerous protections for children.
No one should be denied these rights
on the basis of sex, gender-identity,
sexual orientation or affectional preference.
An injury to one is an injury to all."
Councilmember
Gale A. Brewer:
New York City Council, 6th District
Representing part of Manhattan
The
Reverend Pat Bumgardner: Pastor, Metropolitan
Community Church of New York
New York, NY
"Metropolitan
Community Church stands in the vanguard
of the movement for marriage equality
and filed the first suit in U.S. history
seeking civil recognition for our relationships.
While we support the right of religious
communities to differ in theological
perspectives, scriptural interpretation
and the application of moral and ethical
standards, we believe it is the state's
responsibility to equally recognize
and protect all its citizens. Therefore,
we are committed to using our voice
to maintain the separation of church
mandate and state law, and to move the
quest for marriage equality forward
on behalf of all New Yorkers."
Arthur
Cheliotes, President
Local 1180, Communication Workers of
America (CWA)
New York, NY
"Workers
are workers, no matter their orientation
or color. They need to have equal rights,
equal opportunities, and the right to
decent life."
May
Y. Chen, International Vice President
& Secretary-Treasurer
New York Metropolitan Area Joint Board
UNITE HERE
New York, NY
"As
a long-time advocate for equal rights,
tolerance, and privacy, I support the
Freedom to Marry initiative. I believe
that adults in a committed relationship
should be able to enjoy the legal rights
and benefits of marriage."
Assemblymember
Adele Cohen:
New York State Assembly, 46th District
Representing part of Brooklyn
Rabbi
Ayelet S. Cohen: Congregation Beth Simchat
Torah
New York, NY
"I
support marriage for same-sex couples
because marriage is a civil right. The
1,138 federal rights and hundreds of
state rights and protections automatically
granted to heterosexual couples upon
marriage are systematically denied to
gay men and lesbians. As a rabbi I believe
strongly in the separation of religion
and state in this country. Clergy of
all faiths have the constitutional right
to perform their religious faith according
to their own dictates. People of all
sexual orientations and gender identities
should have equal access to equal rights
in this country. Denying gay men and
lesbians the right to legal marriage
is to deny that they are fully equal
human beings in the eyes of our laws
and our society."
Seminarian
Claudia De la Cruz: Iglesia San Romero
de Las Americas
New York, NY
"I
firmly believe that Christians, religions
and people as a whole need to assume
the responsibility of addressing the
issue of Heterosexism/Homophobia seriously.
As a Christian Black-Latina woman who
struggles against sexism and racism,
I find that our common ground to unite
and end all degrading actions towards
human beings should be the love, respect
and justice that we are to practice
with ALL of God's creation. As part
of the body of Christ we are to respect,
love and celebrate healthy relationships
despite who are the individuals in the
relationship."
Congressman
Joseph Crowley:
United States House of Representatives,
7th District
Representing part of Bronx and Queens.
“Equality
is the principal that our founding fathers
believed in when they created our great
Nation. The ability to enjoy the civil
rights of marriage isn’t a privlege
for some, but an equal right for all.
Attempts by some to politicize this
issue, and thereby the lives of millions
of Americans, is both blatantly and
patently un-American. As a United States
Congressman, the son of immigrants and
a life long resident of New York City,
I am proud to support the Pride Agenda
in their campaign for marriage equality.”
Councilmember
Inez Dickens:
New York City Council, 9th District
Representing part of Manhattan
Senator
Thomas K. Duane:
New York State Senate, 29th District
Representing part of Manhattan
“The right to same-sex civil
marriage is the premier LGBT issue facing
the State Legislature. I am proud to
be the first State Legislator to introduce
legislation clarifying our right to
marry. I will not stop fighting until
same-sex civil marriage is a reality
in New York State.”
Assemblymember
Herman D. Farrell Jr.:
New York State Assembly, 71st District
Representing part of Manhattan
Rabbi
Marla J. Feldman: Commission on Social
Action of Reform Judaism
New York, NY
"The
Reform Jewish Movement, inspired by
Genesis's teaching that all human beings
are created b'tselem Elohim (in the
Divine image), has a long history of
welcoming gay and lesbian Jews into
our congregations and communal life.
Our advocacy on behalf of the LGBT community
includes legislative and judicial efforts
to secure equal opportunity through
same sex marriage. While I believe that
same sex unions embody kedushah, holiness,
just as more traditional marriages do,
nonetheless, each faith community has
the right to make its own decisions
about which marriages to sanctify. However,
when it comes to civil marriage, our
laws must equally protect all Americans,
no matter their sexual orientation,
and all couples should receive the same
legal benefits of marriage."
Barbie
Gatton, President
Committee of Interns & Residents*
Service Employees International Union
(SEIU)
*for identification only
"For
years, union members have embraced all
families, gay and straight. Gay families
have become more visible in the workplace.
People came to realize that equal pay
for equal work includes the idea of
health care benefits for gay families.
While health care benefits are a step
toward social justice, true equality
cannot be achieved unless gay couples
are entitled to civil marriage and all
the rights that go with it."
John
Gillis, International Vice President
& General Manager
New York Joint Board
UNITE HERE
Metro New York and New Jersey
"As
a labor organization, we believe gay
marriage is a human right. Anyone who
claims to be for family values has to
recognize the value of family."
Assemblymember
Deborah J. Glick:
New York State Assembly, 66th District
Representing part of Manhattan
Assemblymember
Richard N. Gottfried:
New York State Assembly, 75th District
Representing part of Manhattan
Assemblymember
Alexander B. Pete Grannis:
New York State Assembly, 65th District
Representing part of Manhattan
“New
York should have welcomed loving, committed
same-sex couples to the institution
of marriage a long time ago. Allowing
same-sex couples to marry is a simple
matter of justice for all people that
is long overdue. I firmly support the
right of same-sex couples to marry.
The
Reverend Robert W. Gunn, Ph.D.: Lecturer
in Psychiatry and Religion, Union Theological
Seminary and Interim Senior Pastor,
Broadway United Church of Christ
New York, NY
"I
believe that marriage equality for same-sex
couples follows clearly and directly
not only from a human rights point of
view, but from a spiritual point of
view. As clergy, we affirm that the
source of all real loving comes from
our common Creator God, and that 'where
love is, God is.' In the marriage ceremony,
we hold up the rings and declare that
they are the 'outward and visible sign
of an inward, invisible grace....' How
can we fail to bless where God as love
appears in the commitment of one person
to another?"
Rev.
Dr. Barbara Jones-Hagedorn
Consultant for Congregational Life and
Mission
VITAL- Vision, Interpretation, Transformation,
Action, Leadership.
"I
support marriage between same sex couples
because I believe the theology of my
Reformed Tradition teaches us to honor
commitments made by couples who are
willing to live in faithfulness to their
baptismal vows, united in a covenantal
relationship that is based upon fidelity
to God and to each other. That covenantal
relationship provides a frame for the
relationship of the couple who are called
to model God's justice and mercy.
Standards of conduct and service required
of all Christian couples and the laws
created to protect their union, should
apply to all couple regardless of gender."
Rabbi
Jill Hausman: Progressive Temple Beth
Ahavath Sholom
Brooklyn, NY
"I
support the rights of Gay and Lesbian
couples to marry legally because it
is important to extend the same rights
and priviledges to every member of our
society. The law must be inclusive of
every person and must be applied equally.
The same protections, respect, and financial
advantages must accrue to each of us.
If God does not leave anyone out, who
are we to make such distinctions?"
William
F. Henning, Jr., Second Vice President
Local 1180, Communication Workers of
America (CWA)
New York, NY
"By
bargaining domestic partner language
in contracts we negotiate we have attempted
to secure the same benefits for all
our members, and it has worked well
for some benefits--but not for others.
Some government programs available to
spouses are not available to domestic
partners. That is why all workers must
be entitled to full and equal rights
of civil marriage."
Rabbi
Garson Herzfeld: Progressive Temple
Beth Ahavath Sholom
Brooklyn, NY
"I
am proud that Reform Judaism represented
by the Central Conference of American
Rabbis and the Union for Reform Judaism
is on record as advocating full legal
status for same gender marriage. Our
movement welcomes gay and lesbian Jews
and their families into our congregations
and all aspects of communal life. I
personally view committed relationships,
whether same or opposite gender couples,
as potentially holy and thereby meriting
the Jewish blessings of Kiddushin (Sanctification)
through formal acts of marriage. Therefore
I wholeheartedly support the rights
of same sex couples to marry in New
York State."
Joseph
C. Hough, Jr.: President, Union Theological
Seminary
New York, NY
"The
14th Amendment to the Constitution clearly
requires that all citizens of the states
must have equal rights. Currently all
the states confer a wide range of rights
to legally married heterosexual couples.
Therefore, I believe that the denial
of any legal marriage option to same
sex couples is clearly in violation
of the !4th Amendment. The states and
the federal governments could, of course,
cease sanctioning "marriages"
at all and simply have a "register
of unions" available to all couples
who desire to live together in a legal
status. This would not affect religious
organizations that wish to conduct marriage
ceremonies or continue the divisive
debate over gay marriage, but it would
at least guarantee the same legal rights
to all united couples that state and
federal government allot now only to
heterosexual couples. This would not
be full justice, but at least it would
be constitutional."
The
Reverend Cari Jackson: CEO and Minister,
Center of Spiritual Light
New York, NY
"I
support marriage equality for three
reasons. One, the words of our nation's
Constitution "with liberty and
justice for all" must be our guide
for ensuring the civil liberties and
human rights of all of our nation's
citizens. The Supreme Court has ruled
that marriage is such a foundational
civil and human right that even individuals
who have been stripped of all of civil
rights because of their own heinous
actions are still given the rights under
the laws to marry. Two, enabling the
religious values of some Americans to
promote the continued denial of any
citizens' right to marry is provides
opportunity for the disregard and erosion
of other civil liberties in the name
of God. Three, denying any citizens
the civil rights extended to others
sends a message that "those"
citizens are inherently less deserving;
this message of marginalization, in
turn, becomes a preamble for victimization
and violence against those who have
been marginalized. Because of my passion
for justice, as informed by my faith,
I support marriage equality both as
a citizen and as a Christian minister."
Councilmember
Robert Jackson:
New York City Council, 7th District
Representing part of Manhattan
The
Reverend Ann Kansfield: Reformed Church
in America, Green Point Reformed Church
Brooklyn, NY
"Being
legally married to my partner would
make a world of difference. It would
acknoledge that we have made certain
promises to one another, before God
and in front of our friends and family.
It would mean that we could make medical
decisions on one another's behalf. It
would ensure that I would not have to
worry if she would receive benfits should
I die. It would enable us to protect
our children should we decide to have
any. In short, it would allow our relationship
real equality."
Fred
Kaplan, President
Retail Employees Union Local 340
UNITE HERE
New York, NY
"Local
340 for many years has had same-sex
domestic partner benefits in our health
insurance plan, but we believe that
all the benefits of marriage should
be extended to these families."
Rabbi
Sharon Kleinbaum: Congregation Beth
Simchat Torah
New York, NY
"Marriage
is not made stronger by excluding people
from it. The attempt to deny gay and
lesbian couples the right to marry is
not a defense of marriage it is bigotry.
It's an attack on the very dignity of
GLBT people. The religious right has
chosen marriage for same-sex couples
as its current target, as a lens through
which to focus hatred for gay people.
We must fight for our right to marry
as we fought and continue to fight against
other forms of discrimination. They
believe God would have us burn in hell.
I believe God created GLBT people in
the divine image along with the rest
of human kind. Which God do you believe
in? Rabbi Kleinbaum is spiritual
leader of Congregation Beth Simchat
Torah in New York, the world's largest
lesbian and gay synagogue."
Councilmember
G. Oliver Koppell:
New York City Council, 11th District
Representing part of Bronx
Senator
Liz Krueger:
New York State Senate, 26th District
Representing part of Manhattan
"It
is simply un-American to argue that
different citizens have differing sets
of rights based on their sexual identities.
Same-sex couples must have the same
rights as heterosexual couples, rights
that will guarantee the legal and social
protections, as well as the benefits,
of marriage."
Assemblymember
Ivan C. Lafayette:
New York State Assembly, 34th District
Representing part of Queens
"I
fully support the right of each and
every New Yorker to marry whomever they
wish. All who know that the qualities
of love and family are greater than
the fears of prejudice and hate ought
to share in that belief. No citizen
should be denied the rights guaranteed
to his of or her sister or brother."
Wilfredo
Larancuent, International Vice President
& Manager
Laundry, Drycleaning and Allied Workers
Joint Board
UNITE HERE
Metro NY
"Marriage
is an issue of people loving each other
and wanting to spend their lives together.
They can be black and white, man and
woman, woman and woman or man and man.
It's a civil rights issue."
The
Reverend David Lewicki: Associate Minister,
Marble Collegiate Church
New York, NY
"Jesus
Christ reached me--a straight man--through
my relationships with committed, gay
Christian couples. In my early 20s,
I met several couples whose 'perfect
love cast out all fear.' These women
and men had, to the person, received
into their lives an irrepressible, life-changing
love from God that allowed them to love
their partners fiercely and faithfully,
no matter what their families, society,
or the church said. To know that you
are loved, and to turn and love another--no
matter the cost: if that's not a holy
Christian life, I don't know what is."
Congresswoman
Carolyn B. Maloney:
United States House of Representatives,
14th District
Representing part of Queens
"The
right of consenting adults to marry
their loved ones is inherent in the
ideal of 'life, liberty and the pursuit
of happiness' upon which our great nation
was founded. Anything less than full
marriage equality for same-sex couples
constitutes separate and unequal treatment."
Rabbis
J. Rolando Matalon, Marcelo R. Bronstein,
Felicia L. Sol
Congregation B'nai Jeshurun
New York, NY
"In
our community, everyone has an important
role. Straight or gay, woman or man,
rich or poor, young or old - it makes
no difference.
Sadly,
the commitment ceremonies we perform
for gay and lesbian couples aren't matched
by New York State legal recognition.
Until that happens, we'll continue to
work for full civil rights for all New
Yorkers."
Rev.
Dr. Daniel Meeter, Pastor
Old First Reformed Church
Brooklyn, New York
"I
support the legal right of gay and lesbian
persons to marry in New York State.
I believe that gay and lesbian persons
can vow "to love each other, comfort
each other, honor and keep each other,
in sickness and in health, and forsaking
every other, keep to each other, as
long as they both shall live."
Our congregation has decided to bless
such vows, and I believe that the State
of New York should legitimize and protect
such vows with full marital recognition.
I believe this course will strengthen
marriage and add to the health and wholeness
of society at large. "
Councilmember
Rosie Mendez: New York City Council,
2nd District
Representing part of Manhattan
“The
right to marry is just that: ‘a
right’ which must be available
to all of us, regardless of gender or
sexual orientation.
I
stand with ESPA and every other organization
dedicated to remedy the injustice caused
when our families are barred from over
1,000 federal and 700 state rights and
responsibilities because we are denied
access to civil marriage.
Civil
unions and domestic partnerships are
a step in the right direction but until
civil marriage is available to everyone,
same-sex families' best hope is to live
a second-class citizenship under a legal
structure that is separate and unequal
to civil marriage.
Achieving
the right to same-sex civil marriage
plays an integral role in implementing
ESPA's stated goal of ‘winning
equality and justice for lesbian, gay,
bisexual, and transgender New Yorkers
and our families.”
The
Reverend Leslie Merlin: Second Presbyterian
Church
New York, NY
"I
am strongly in favor of legalizing same-sex
marriage. The ability to love is a gift
of God; the willingness to make a life-long
commitment is blessed by God. Who are
we to judge or deny?"
The
Rev. Rosemary Bray McNatt
The Fourth Universalist Society in the
City of New York
New York, NY
"As
a happily married woman, I know that
one of life's greatest blessings is
the committed love that leads to marriage
and a life together. It is a sacred
opportunity that I believe is the birthright
of every human being willing to make
that commitment. As a liberal religious
leader, I have the privilege of ministering
to many same-sex couples. I have witnessed
the joy of those couples who have found
an enduring love, as well as the sorrow
that results because our society refuses
to acknowledge, support and legally
protect the love and dedication of same-sex
couples. This refusal is wrong, it is
unfair, it imposes on all of us a single
narrow definition of marriage that my
religious tradition does not share,
and-most of all-it mocks the precious
gift we know love to be. For these reasons,
I am a passionate supporter of marriage
equality, and pledge my support for
the day when any two people who love
each other may freely step forward into
the adventure of marriage."
Senator
Velmanette Montgomery:
New York State Senate, 18th District
Representing part of Brooklyn
"As a co-sponsor of the marriage
equality bill in New York State, I proudly
endorse the right of LGBT couples to
enter into civil marriage and receive
the same governmental entitlements and
protections afforded heterosexual couples.
Same-sex marriage is about equal protection
under the law.
Congressman
Jerrold Nadler:
United States House of Representatives,
8th District
Representing parts of Manhattan and
Brooklyn
“Equal
treatment under the law for same-sex
couples is a matter of basic justice
and fairness. These couples should have
the right to do what every opposite-sex
couple takes for granted - the right
to walk into any city hall in this country
and have their loving commitment to
each other supported and recognized
by the State through civil marriage.”
Assemblymember
Daniel O'Donnell:
New York State Assembly, 69th District
Representing part of Manhattan
“The
right to marry is a basic civil right.
That is why my partner and I joined
the lawsuit to strike down the New York
State law barring same-sex marriage.”
Roshi
Enkyo O'Hara, abbot of Village Zendo
in Manhattan
New York, NY
"When
two people commit to care for one another,
to dedicate their lives in a mutual
effort toward spiritual and ethical
good, it is a marvelous thing. How could
anyone be excluded from this natural
human aspiration? When we open our minds
to include all beings, we enter the
realm of goodness and completeness.
May this struggle help all beings to
realize the unconditional value of every
human life."
Rev.
Dámaris E. Ortega
San Romero de Las Américas
New York, NY
"Same
sex marriage extends full and equal
legal rights and priviledge to same
sex couples, just as heterosexual couples
have enjoyed, but from a spiritual and
holistic point of view, it is much more
than that. It extends to the sacredness
of a covenant made in love and committedment
of couples that long for the recognition
of their relationship, with the blessing
and affirmation in full, as a matter
of justice, pastoral care, and equality
in our society and in their faith communities.
I strongly believe that by us supporting
same sex marriage we are showing the
seriousness and committement in relationships
that become holy relationships in the
hearts of those entering the covenant
and in the eyes of society."
Sally
Otos, Esq. , Founding Local Officer
Columbia University Clericals Local
2110 United Auto Workers (UAW)
Currently Counsel to Columbia Medical
School SEIU Local 693
New York, NY
"As
a Local Officer of the clerical workers
union at Columbia University, I remember
negotiating domestic partner Bereavement
Leave during the AIDS epidemic. Lesbian
and gay union families at Columbia University
now have domestic partner health benefits
as well. But as a labor, employment
and civil rights attorney, I see the
thousand civil disadvantages these families
face all the time-from immigration to
inheritance to child custody issues.
Only the New York State Courts or the
State Legislature can complete the work
that I helped begin over 20 years ago
to provide equal rights and economic
justice for gay and lesbian families.
As a lesbian whose partner died without
access to my medical benefits, I feel
the lack of those rights every day."
The
Reverend Freeman L. Palmer: Minister,
Social Action and Outreach, Middle Collegiate
Church
New York, NY
"I
support the right for same sex New Yorkers
to marry because the right of two people
to love and to make a public affirmation
and commitment of that love to one another
cannot or should not be legislated because
of prejudice and fear. As people of
faith, we have a divine call to affirm
the dignity and worth of every human
being. To deny a same-sex couple the
1,049 rights that a heterosexual couple
immediately receives the moment they
say 'I do' violates the biblical mandate
to 'let justice to roll down like rivers
and righteousness like an ever-flowing
stream.'(Amos 5:24) Same sex marriage
is at its heart about love, equality,
and justice."
Senator
Kevin S. Parker:
New York State Senate, 21st Senate District
Representing part of Brooklyn
“I
believe that marriage is a fundamental
right that should be extended to all
loving couples. Legislating discrimination
is a dangerous road to travel down and
I, for one, find myself worried when
the government takes it upon itself
to decide which two people should make
a life together.
Senator
David A. Paterson:
New York State Senate Minority Leader,
30th District
Representing part of Manhattan
Rev.
David C. Parsons, pastor
St. John-St. Matthew-Emanuel Lutheran
Church
Brooklyn, NY
"I
support the right for same-sex couples
to marry - in New York State, and in
every state. I speak as a Christian,
as an ordained pastor, and as a human
being who happens to have been created
heterosexual. I base my conviction on
holy scripture (here I especially commend
Acts 5:38-39 - ...if this plan or this
undertaking is of human origin, it will
fail; but if it is of God, you will
not be able to overthrow them-in that
case you may even be found fighting
against God!), tradition, and personal
experience."
Speaker
Christine Quinn:
New York City Council, 3rd District
Representing part of Manhattan
Region
9A New York Metro Community Action Program
(CAP) Council
United Auto Workers (UAW)
New York, NY
"For
many years the UAW has worked hard to
protect the rights of our lesbian, gay,
bisexual and transgender members and
their families against discrimination
and bigotry. In fact as far back as
1982 he UAW pioneered domestic partner
benefits for its members at the Village
Voice. The UAW membership in N.Y. includes
a wide range of white collar and blue
collar workers - from university adjunct
professors, university teaching and
research assistants to legal aid lawyers,
and from creative and technical writers
to auto repair mechanics and various
other industrial workers. But we are
all agreed that same-sex couples should
have the civil right to marriage and
the approximately 1500 other legal benefits
and protections that can't be won through
collective bargaining, but can come
through marriage equality."
Maida
Rosenstein, President
Technical, Office and Professional Local
2110
United Auto Workers (UAW)
New York, NY
"Our
union has fought for years to establish
domestic partner benefits in our contract
negotiations with employers, because
we believe in equal coverage for ALL
of our members, straight or gay. Marriage
equality is a matter of justice and
fairness."
Assemblywoman
Linda Rosenthal
New York State Assembly, 67th District
Representing part of Manhattan
Senator
John D. Sabini
New York State Senate, 13th District
Representing part of Queens
The
Reverend M. Zell Schwartzman:
New York, NY
"We
wave the supreme flags of Civil Rights
Equality and Love.
We are New York State.
and so :
If not us
who?
If not here
where?
If not now.....when?'
We must sanction same- sex marriages.
Now."
Senator
Jose M. Serrano:
New York State Senate, 28th District
Reprsenting parts of Bronx and Manhattan
Senator
Eric T. Schneiderman:
New York State Senate, 31st District
Representing parts of Bronx and Manhattan
The
Reverend Dr. Byron E. Shafer: Pastor,
Rutgers Presbyterian Church
New York, NY
"Same-sex
couples who wish to be married should
be allowed, indeed encouraged, to do
so and should be celebrated as examples
of persons willing to undertake faithful,
loving commitment to one another. For
in marriage they are vowing to stay
together, to support each other, to
be faithful to one another, and, in
some cases, to nurture children together.
Marriage
equality is also essential to the free
exercise of religion, to religious organizations'
right to decide for themselves which
couples can be blessed and married.
A number of religious denominations
endorse same-sex marriage, including
Reconstructionist Judaism, The Unitarian/Universalist
Association, The Metropolitan Community
Church, and the United Church of Christ.
The government's current definition
of marriage endorses the free exercise
of some Americans' religious beliefs
while prohibiting the free exercise
of other Americans' religious beliefs."
Rabbi
Burt Aaron Siegel: The Shul of New York
New York, NY
"As
I understand the Jewish Tradition, opposition
to homosexuality in the past was based
on an anachronistic and faulty understanding
of human sexuality.
Therefore we can no longer be guided
by those old views.
Today our source of guidance about homosexuality
and gay relationships has to be grounded
in core Jewish values---justice, love
for all and the encouragement of intimate,
loving human relationships. My support
for gay marriage is derived from my
commitment to these Jewish"
The
Reverend Bruce Southworth: Senior Minister,
The Community Church of NY Unitarian
Universalist
New York, NY
"In
looking at what is too often a tempestuous
debate as same-sex marriage becomes
a legal right across our nation in the
years ahead, the twin foundations for
religious support are clear: Love and
Justice
God's
love knows no bounds, and each one of
us is a child of a sacred creation,
whose worth, dignity, and rights deserve
honor.
Wherever
a deep, committed love blesses a couple,
no matter one's gender, we should rejoice
for God is present in that Love.
Justice
is the social incarnation of Love, and
I look forward to that day when same-sex
couples receive all the rights and responsibilities
of citizenship, especially that of marriage."
Rabbi
Micahel Strassfeld: Society for the
Advancement of Judaism
New York, NY
"In
Hebrew the word for holiness is kedusha.
A form of this word is also used to
refer to the wedding ceremony. When
two people who love each other come
together to commit to each other that
is kedusha---holy. Such moments are
too rare in our world, therefore any
such moment is sacred and holy and should
be celebrated by Judaism."
Manhattan
Borough President Scott Stringer:
Borough of Manhattan
“Marriage
must be guaranteed to all people regardless
of their sexual orientation. I sincerely
hope that our courts will deliver long
overdue justice by standing with the
LGBT community on this issue. When a
segment of our population is denied
the basic benefits of a legal marriage,
our society will remain unjust.”
Lynn
Taylor, President
Local 1930, District Council 37
American Federation of State, County
and Municipal Employees (AFSCME)
Manhattan and the Bronx
"Marriage
is a basic civil right and should be
extended to all, regardless of their
sexual orientation."
The
Reverend Paul James Tenaglia: Minister,
Unity Church of New York
New York, NY
"There
are issues that the Bible never addresses,
contrary to the opinions of some American
traditionalists; homosexuality is one
of them. Although there may be directives
concerning same-sex activities in scripture,
these were meant as guidelines for heterosexual
persons who chose to go against their
true nature; the science of homosexuality
as an innate state of being wasn't known
then. Today we understand that those
who are attracted to their own gender
are due their full human rights as tax-paying
citizens, including marriage. New York
would do well to follow the lead of
Massachusetts in doing what is right
and just for all of its citizens."
The
Reverend Walter B. Tennyson: Pastor,
Broadway Presbyterian Church
New York, NY
"Scripture's
promise that "in the very place
it was said to them, 'you are not my
people', they shall be called children
of the living God" (Rom. 9:26)
is a call from all kinds of exile and
exclusion to come home--perhaps to a
place we have never been before. Every
time the church celebrates covenant
love in same-sex relationships, we remind
ourselves of the saving truth that we
all come to God's love by grace; from
slaves to chosen people, from gentiles
to adopted children, from outcast to
fully and lovingly embraced."
The
Reverend Joseph W. Tolton: Rehoboth
Temple
New York, NY
"As
a Pastor and professional man of faith,
I fully support the legalization of
marriage unions for same sex couples.
The key to building stronger communities
is creating an atmosphere which encourages
couples to make a lifetime commitment
to spiritual partnership. Let's not
confuse a conversation about bigotry
with credible debates about theology
and dogma."
Comptroller
William C. Thompson Jr.:
City of New York
“Same-sex
couples in committed relationships deserve
the same rights and legal protections
as heterosexual couples. I have been
a staunch supporter of marriage for
same-sex couples as a fundamental human
rights issue. Our City, State and Nation
must aspire to the principles of equality
and inclusivity, not bigotry and divisiveness.”
The
Reverend Mieke Vandersall: Minister
Director, Presbyterian Welcome
New York, NY
"Gay
marriage will be one step towards bridging
the gap between first class and second
class citizenship. When we come to a
decision to profess our love and care
for each other, wanting that relationship
to be blessed and affirmed by our community,
we have access to the very support our
religious communities profess to offer
to its believers."
Randi
Weingarten, President
United Federation of Teachers (UFT)
American Federation of Teachers (AFT)
New York, NY
"All
New Yorkers who want to marry should
be allowed to do so. Period."
Rabbi
Wenig: Rabbi Emerita - Beth Am, The
People's Temple, Instructor - Jewish
Institute of Religion
New York, NY
"Marriage
at its best is good for society. When
marriage provides emotional stability
and financial support for children and
homemakers, when marriage helps sustain
commitment even in the face of challenges,
when marriage supports sanctuaries of
safety and security not to mention love,
in an insecure world, then marriage
is good for society. Gay and lesbian
couples, seeking legal recognition of
our relationships, are defenders of
marriage. Granting us the right to marry
does not threaten marriage it underscores
its value to us all."
The
Reverend Mark N. Wind: Interfaith Minster
New York, NY
"I
support the right for same-sex couples
to marry in New York State mainly because
it shows that we commit to one another
as partners in life so we can share
all the benefits hetero married life
offers."
Rabbi
Nancy H. Wiener, DMin
Director, Jacob and Hilda Blaustein
Center for Pastoral Counseling
Hebrew Union College
NY, NY
"As
a Reform rabbi, I strongly support Marriage
Equality in NY because I see it as an
essential means for us to affirm the
full dignity and civil equality of gay
and lesbian New Yorkers. My religious
community affirms the sanctity of same-sex
committed relationships and celebrates
such relationships through religious
ceremonies for years. Unfortunately,
I must clarify for each couple for whom
I serve as an officiant, that while
the ceremony brings equality for them
within our religious community, in the
absence of civil recognition of their
relationship, they can never achieve
the status of "next of kin,"
with its specific rights and responsibilities
that redound on every heterosexual married
couple. All New Yorkers in committed
relationships who wish protection under
the law should be able to attain it.
It is for this reason that I support
Marriage Equality in New York and across
our nation. "
Nancy Wohlforth, Secretary-Treasurer
Office and Professional Employees International Union (OPEIU)
NYC Metro Area
“Many labor unions, including OPEIU, have endorsed same-sex civil marriages and seek to expand workplace benefits for their gay and lesbian members. All gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender workers unequivocally deserve the same benefits as heterosexual workers.”
Assemblymember
Keith L. T. Wright:
New York State Assembly, 70th District
Representing part of Manhattan
top
Long
Island
County
Legislator John Cooper:
Suffolk County Legislature, 18th District
Rabbi
Benjamin David: Temple Sinai of Roslyn
Roslyn Heights, NY
"As
a rabbi, teacher, and community leader
I proudly support same-sex marriages.
The Judaism that I know values all individuals,
and the sanctity of all loving relationships.
I am therefore honored to work with
my colleagues across the state as we
attempt to achieve equal rights - civil
rights and civil justice - for all citizens."
Rabbi
Marc A. Gruber: Reform Jewish Voice
of New York State
Rockville Centre, NY
"God
has created some people as heterosexuals
and others as homosexuals. This is not
perversity but human diversity. All
people - gay men, lesbians, straight
men and straight women - are created
b'tzelem Elohim, in the image of God
and all people are equal recipients
of God's love. What is that makes us
human beings? In large measure, it is
our ability to love and be loved. I
support marriage rights for homosexual
men and women and will officiate for
Jewish couples using the same standards
that I require of heterosexual couples."
Assemblymember
Charles D. Lavine:
New York State Assembly, 13th District
Representing part of Nassau County
Thomas
F. Liotti, Esq., Village Justice
Westbury
"I
support equal rights and the right of
gays and lesbians to marry. There should
be a change in the law to allow for
equality. As a Village Justice for the
Incorporated Village of Westbury, if
the law were changed, I would be honored
to perform gay marriage ceremonies."
The Reverend Sean
B. Murray: Community Church of Syosset,
UCC
Syosset, NY
"All
who love God and believe that they are
called according to God's purpose should
and must support equal rights for all.
The right to marry is a basic human
right and should not be denied on the
basis of ignorance or prejudice (as
is currently the case)."
Rabbi
Michael A. White: Temple Sinai of Roslyn
Roslyn, NY
"When
two people fall in love and establish
a permanent relationship of fidelity,
monogamy and constancy, there is sanctity
between them regardless of their sexual
orientation. Because I believe that
God blesses such commitment, we should
as well."